I am transitioning into the married life. The transition is confusing and causes me to look differently at friendships; to do double takes more then before. I liked being single.. mismatched makeshift p.j.'s, pedicures on the couch while watching Sex in the City, and eating any crazy combination of food for dinner whenever I got hungry.
I am sure my groom feels a bit the same. I am sure he wishes he could trim his nose hairs without confining himself to the bathroom or wishes he could upgrade the text messaging plan to save money on all my texts to him... or whatever.
But in all this, I am looking forward to being One with my groom, married. And I don't want to apologize for it. I am blissfully happy! Indescribably happy and content in the person I am becoming. I don't want to shave my groom out of my conversations so much that I am regressing to more of my single life then married. I promise you ladies... I promise you, when you find the strength within yourself to be the woman God calls you to be and a man comes along..the right man, you will be so disoriented that the only way to enjoy, live, and accept - is to GO WITH IT! I promise you, the right man will make you crazy and your single friends will hesitate and draw back.
I don't want this. I want to be me in my marriedness with all those I truly love. Single women included.
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