Monday, January 05, 2009

Being Clear, Pt 2


Lately, I have not made my "needs" known to Jeopardy Champ and it has caused some problems with my girlfriends. At this point, you probably have questions about the connection. I am the connection. I am the one with the breakdown in communication. I need to know what I want, not just what I don't want. Tonight, I write a needs list - per Champ's request. I have never been asked by man or woman to write down my "requirements" so that they are more clear. Champ is really great! I only have 3 things on my list so far.
I think there is a way to be an assertive woman of God without being a "Lucy" in order to get what you need. Lucy knows what she doesn't want. She doesn't want to trust herself to trust Charlie Brown. She doesn't want to tell Schroeder outright that she likes, even loves him. And finally, she doesn't trust that she can be happy. Now, the list...

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