I have been trying to think of a new name for my friend; Jeopardy Champ, but I can't seem to settle on a better one. "Jeopardy Champ" is a perfect name for him and therefore I would like to re-instate him at this time.
About a month ago, I noticed a beautiful woman on TV, Jeopardy Champ agreed. Then I said, "Every woman is beautiful until you get to know them"... their habits, their quirks, their "not-so-mentionable" qualities. "But the real beauty comes if a woman can find a way to remain beautiful"... by believing in herself, enjoying the security she has in God, taking care of her own needs and giving to those she can. The reason we think most women who are beautiful, are beautiful is along with their physical beauty and momentary poise, we don't know them or want to know about their everyday lives. We want to believe that what we see is all there is.
To me, the real beauty of a woman, and then in relationship, comes when we allow imperfections to exist as apart of her and surrender to those parts.
This is advice to me as I wonder how long it will take to release the last 10 lbs. on my body. Maybe the last 10 lbs is really all in my head?
2 comments:
insightful words from Jeopardy Champ. I think it goes the other way for guys also. sometimes there are really attractive men, who, upon further interaction, display only meanness of spirit that repels rather than attracts any further. don't ya think?
It's a life goal of my to get comfortable in my own skin. I don't know what makes me crazy enough to believe I will ride out my life in anyone else's.
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