Eyes forward!

In the dating world, the best thing a woman (or man for that matter) can do, is work on themself. This in turn will prepare you for the amazing mate God brings into your path. It will also allow God to continue His work on the man. I am not saying it is easy to let things flow in a new relationship. I am not even saying you have to play hard to get. What I am saying is, don't stop being and doing your own life and wait for the phone to ring.

Most men and women are clueless when it comes to the flow of a relationship. Yes, there are basic gestures, as my friend Hazel blogs about, but ladies.... men are human, flawed and the right one is waiting to be the dreamy whipped cream on your hot fudge sundae. As I grow "wiser," I am beginning to enjoy the flaws... because it is where we live real lives. It is where real relationship can happen.

If we continue to keep God as our "first Love," we will recognize that we are human and flawed too.... We are also the perky whipped cream on their hot fudge sundae. God's blessings to all who risk their lives in the dating ring.